{"id":294,"date":"2023-01-30T18:46:10","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T18:46:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/?p=294"},"modified":"2023-01-31T01:23:05","modified_gmt":"2023-01-31T01:23:05","slug":"what-to-do-if-its-just-not-your-season","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/what-to-do-if-its-just-not-your-season\/","title":{"rendered":"What to do if it&#8217;s just not your season"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"821\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-821x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"Ganley children\" class=\"wp-image-295 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-821x1024.jpeg 821w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-241x300.jpeg 241w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-768x957.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-1232x1536.jpeg 1232w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1-120x150.jpeg 120w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/group1.jpeg 1440w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 821px) 100vw, 821px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 821px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 821\/1024;\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>&#8216;Tis the season of motherhood over here &#8212; my little loves, Analisa, Robby and Bridget<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>As many of you know &#8212; especially if you read this blog regularly! &#8212; my husband and I welcomed a baby in mid-November.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/a-tops-baby\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bridget is our third<\/a>, and we are so delighted to have her as part of the family. In some ways, it&#8217;s like she&#8217;s always been with us. Just the other day, I asked myself, &#8220;How has she only been here 11 weeks?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Man, 11 weeks. Think about how SHORT that is, in the grand scheme of things. She didn&#8217;t even exist (earth side, at least), as of Halloween 2022. Very surreal!<\/em> \ud83e\udd23<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, I had a relatively easy pregnancy, and I only gained about 15-20 pounds. <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/gestational-diabetes-what-ive-been-eating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">I guess I have to thank the gestational diabetes for that<\/a> &#8212; not being able to enjoy much sugar or many carbs; and of course, I abstained from alcohol because that&#8217;s just what you do &#8230; so it meant no extra calories from cookies, bread or wine (which are usually some of my favorite things!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I most certainly gained less weight this time around, than I have in the past. And that SHOULD be a good thing, right? Less gained, less to lose?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-1024x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-300 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-1536x1536.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz-250x250.jpeg 250w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/me-pregz.jpeg 2048w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>The day before Bridget was born<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>I <em>am<\/em> pretty eager to return to my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shape.com\/fitness\/workouts\/things-you-need-know-about-bikram-yoga\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">(hot hot hot) yoga class<\/a>, get into a good walking regimen, maybe lift some weights or initiate a new routine with my kettlebell, which was my go-to during the pandemic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There just hasn&#8217;t been any time. I&#8217;ve struggled with that, a bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I don&#8217;t have <em>that<\/em> many pounds to shed, if any. I&#8217;m right back where I was in early 2022, pre-baby #3, according to the scale. But this isn&#8217;t intended as a brag. My body still doesn&#8217;t feel very firm, and I have some work to do, so there are definitely some goals I&#8217;d like to accomplish: A tighter mid-section, achieving more strength, more muscle definition, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The scale doesn&#8217;t always tell the full story, as you likely know! \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In fact, I got into a bathing suit a few weekends ago, and I tried to give myself grace, still being very postpartum and all &#8212; but like I said &#8230; I&#8217;m not quite where I&#8217;d like to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The whole thing got me thinking, especially when it comes to TIME and timing: Maybe it&#8217;s just not my season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least, not yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As much as I&#8217;d LOVE to get back to that hot yoga class 5-7 days a week (which is where I was before I got pregnant), I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s in the cards for me right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As much as I&#8217;d love to get back to some of the aspects of my gestational diabetes diet (low-carb, high protein, minimal sugar actually left me feeling pretty good!), I&#8217;m not sure that&#8217;s in the cards for me, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Lactating makes me HUNGRY &#8212; hungrier than I&#8217;ve ever been, times 10, and I don&#8217;t always have time these days to meal-prep and grocery shop and do all the work I did while pregnant &#8230; I have a family of 5, a full-time job and some things to catch up on! &#8212; so I hate to be all excuses on this front, but the diet change might have to wait, too.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know, of course, that you can make time for things that your really want. But that&#8217;s just not where my priorities are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was recently feeling frustrated by all this, and then I remembered something I had heard once. Something to the effect of, &#8220;It&#8217;s just a season.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meaning, life is a series of seasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I don&#8217;t mean just winter-spring-summer-fall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are seasons of good, seasons of joy. Seasons of heartache, transition and struggle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I remember crying right after I had my son, because he was THE most reflux-y baby of all time. He was what the doctors called a &#8220;happy spitter,&#8221; meaning he was still gaining weight just fine; there was no need to medicate him. But I&#8217;ll be darned if that wasn&#8217;t the most frustrating thing in the world, at the time. I&#8217;d spend all this time pumping him milk (as he had feeding difficulties), all for him to vom it back onto my shirt, 10 minutes after taking a bottle. I wailed to my mom on the phone one day, &#8220;I can&#8217;t live like this forever!&#8221; And she reminded me, gently of course because she&#8217;s the best, &#8220;But it WON&#8217;T be forever. It&#8217;s just a season.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somehow, that helped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s true especially with motherhood &#8212; one day you wake up, and the thing that had been stressing you out for weeks is just DONE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we stress and panic, I think we tend to forget that things don&#8217;t last forever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that&#8217;s what&#8217;s beautiful and also bittersweet about life. Things don&#8217;t last. The good times sometimes don&#8217;t last. But the hard times don&#8217;t stick around forever, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The baby analogy works here, too. Bridget, who is also a bit of a spitter-upper, won&#8217;t throw up in my hair forever. (Phew! I need that reminder lately). But she&#8217;ll also never be 11 weeks again. I&#8217;ll look back at these pictures someday and have a hard time remembering what these days were even like, how we kept busy, what her laugh sounded like, because time is fleeting and I already feel this way with my older two. Some moments are so precious, I wish I could bottle them up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nothing lasts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Life is a series of seasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, that was a long-winded way of reminding anyone else who&#8217;s in a difficult season: Whether it&#8217;s new motherhood or something else entirely &#8212; <strong>you won&#8217;t feel like this forever.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it&#8217;s not a great season for hot yoga classes or healthy eating or religious calorie tracking, just let it be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do what you can.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m going to aim for baby steps &#8212; skipping dessert on weeknights, eating the pizza but a reasonable portion of the pizza rather than the 8 slices I&#8217;d like, perhaps opting for mushrooms instead of pepperoni as my topping, sticking with water instead of pop, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It can&#8217;t be an &#8220;all or nothing&#8221; mentality. Or it&#8217;s never going to click.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, baby steps might be small, but they&#8217;re still steps, and they&#8217;re absolutely steps forward. If I keep making small tweaks, those will add up over time. And they&#8217;ll put me in a position where, when I *am* ready to return to hot yoga and overhaul the rest of my diet, maybe the stage will be set for my success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All we can do is tackle what&#8217;s in front of us. Make it manageable. Make it obtainable. If life is in your way, shoot for small. It&#8217;s better than nothing!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I would most definitely rather soak in the baby cuddles, than sculpt the perfect body right now, regardless of how I happen to look in a bathing suit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll have time for yoga another day, but I&#8217;ll never get back this random Monday that I have with my (almost!) 3-month-old baby.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-298 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/blogs.tops.org\/tops-of-mind\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/bridge-solo.jpg 1440w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Bridget, at 11 weeks<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Perspective is key. 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I think this could be applied in many walks of life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I realize this was a little rambly today (reflective of the chaos swirling in my brain!), but I&#8217;m hoping if anyone can relate, that this resonated with at least one of you! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Until next time, Michelle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do what you can, there&#8217;s always tomorrow, and I hope you&#8217;re in a beautiful season at the moment &#8212; but if you&#8217;re not, just know that you&#8217;re not alone. 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